So, how do we do this?
Excellent question. Of course if we have the opportunity to take our grandchildren to church, this is part of what we are able to do, but it is only a small piece of the puzzle. I wrote about Larry Fowler's book, "The Question Nobody Asks About Our Children" and how he says if children go to church every week, they are there for just one hour out of 168 hours in a week. If their church has longer services, a children's church and/or mid-week, then they are there for more time, but not likely much more than three or four hours in total out of those 168 hours in a week. If like many children, they are really only at church every other week, then those one to four hours are out of 336 hours. Definitely not a lot of time.
Clearly we are not able to rely upon the church to do the job of handing down a heritage of faith; and we should not as it is not the job God gave to the church. Yes, they are able to have a part in pointing children to Him, but as the hours show, it is a small part.
Deuteronomy 6 says it is the job of parents and grandparents to hold to the faith and then hand it on to the children they love; and their children's children as well. This means there absolutely is a role, and important role, for grandparents to fill when it comes to handing down a heritage of faith. Deuteronomy 6 outlines what we do to hand down this heritage of faith - it answers the question of, "How do we do this?".
Don't you just love it when God's Word shows us the answers to our questions?!!! I do! So, what is the answer? How do we hand down a heritage of faith to our grandchildren? Consider the following . . .
- Keep God's words, "on our hearts"! We have to know God's Words to hand them on! This means we have to spend time in God's Word - we have to be people of the Word!
- Impress them on our grandchildren - this means there is action involved. We are not just able to sit back and say we have already, "done our job". We have to be engaged!
- Talk about God and His Word in our day-in-day-out lives. This means we are intentional about talking with our grandchildren - at specific times and as God provides the opportunities. We, "connect" God and His Word with our lives and our grandchildren's lives!
- We keep reminders of God and His Word around our home - symbols to help us stop and think and remember what God has done for us.
- We pay attention. We keep our focus, so we remember our blessings are from God!
- We are careful to remember Who we serve and do not get distracted by the things in this world.
#grandmas #handingdownthefaith #itmatterswhatwedo #grandparentingonpurpose