There is no shortage of important messages we need to be sure we give to our grandchildren, but one of these important messages is - "You are valuable because you exist. Not because of what you do or what you have done - but simply because you are."
Our grandchildren will meet many people in their lives who tell them, with their words or actions, they only have value for what they know or are able to do. This is absolutely not true. We need to be people who speak and show the truth - they have value because God created them. Period. And, we need to help them understand if they are with people or in a place where their value depends on things they do, they need to leave those places.
Give the children you love the truth. Speak it, show it, encourage them to be people who take this to heart and live it. They, and the children they may one day have, will benefit from it for all of their lives.